Attending the Penn-Del District Ministers’ Wives Retreat this past weekend was a blast.  Talking, laughing, fellowshipping  and relaxing were encouraged and enjoyed big time.  Marjie Tourville, the First Lady of our District, and her team did an excellent job of planning and executing the theme “Love in Every Room.”  It was integrated not only in the decor and speaking but in the schedule and activiites.  We felt the love of God through her, the hair stylists, nail and facial technicians ,and yes, even the reflexologist and massage therapists.  The chocolate fountain and mocha punch just kicked it up a notch  Emeril style! 

I think Marjie has just outdone herself in real Purposeful, Powerful Choleric style.  She shot for the moon and caught some stars too.  Hats off to Marjie!  Hats off to Steve, her husband,  for encouraging and supporting this wonderful lady in following her passion and purpose. 

I don’t know about you but I thoroughly enjoyed hearing Jenny Duncan talk about “Love in the Bedroom.”  That hat was a real fashion statement Jenny!  She looked at three large things in our bedroom — the closet, the mirror and the bed.  The clothes in our closet and overstuffed panty drawer show the seasons of our lives –embrace where you are

The Mirrow reflects who we are : 

  • Overworked Super Mom  – “oh my aching feet.”
  • In Demand Ministers Wife - “Lord give me grace.”
  • Decisive Decision Maker - “somebody please think for yourself for a change.”
  • Spiritual Giant – “Oh grow up already, will ya?”
  • Vacation Ready Momma – “Just leave a message”

We can look in the mirror and get depressed or we can look at what the Word says and embrace who we are.  She has her confession on her large mirror – great idea.

Of course embracing where and who we are will help us “love the man in the bedroom.”   Jenny reminded us that we need to fight to stay joined as one flesh. We have to fight the busyness, the entertainment like TV, any fantasy life that excludes our man.   We need to fight for growth individually and for our marriage.  We need to fight to make up because making up is sooooooo much fun!!!  Right on Jenny.

Gloria and her worship team lead us into the throne room in quick fashion.  Her rich warm vocals, choice of songs, and excellence on the keyboard made it easy to worship.  I didn’t even miss the drums, guitar, bass or electric guitar.  She’s a one woman band.   “I am Yours” was one of my favorites. 

On the next blogs we’ll discuss “Love in the Dining Room” and our Spiritual Personalities.  For now, share your comments about the weekend for others to see.